UPS AND DOWNS IN YEAR 2009

hello everyone, it is my pleasure that everyone here will have the opportunity to view what i have written here in my blog. as we know, the year 2009 is coming to an end and i am confident to say that there are many challenges ahead. therefore it is my sincere hope that all of us will remain tough and do not lose hope in whatever we do. as we all know, every cloud has a silver lining. which means there is always a solution and reason for everything. as a matter of fact, we must always believe in ourselves as confidence is one of the most crucial element for us to succeed. however, under certain circumstances, sometimes things just happen.... no matter how careful we are or the measures we take, things just happen... anyway i am satisfied with what i am now, being my true self and basically, i am able to think rationally and carefully now. before this, i used to be an ignorant, stubborn and reckless person. that is to say that i do things without proper planning and not well-organised... these are my weaknesses... but my major weakness is something to do with responsibility. well i am sure all of u would like to know why. first and foremost, i faced many difficulties in my leadership throughout this year and of course, when u r the head of an organisation or society and u did something wrong or because of some "blacksheeps" who put u into trouble, u r the one who will shoulder the responsibility rite? thus i conclude that being a leader is not easy...... so that is my major problem but anyway i am still learning and i hope i will be able to overcome these problems. however i am not without my noble and positive qualities... ( haha i am not boasting but it's a fact of life- about me) frankly speaking i am a person who loves to help other people especially my classmates in their studies.... in other words, i am willing to share and exchange my knowledge with others. in fact, i strongly believe that a person who is willing to share his experience and knowledge will always do better than those guys who are selfish and inconsiderate... another thing is that i am a person who loves challenges. i always challenge myself that i can do better than others, if u think like this- " other people can achieve success and their targets, so y cant i do the same as well?" when u think like this, you will go exceptionally far. but the word "challenge" i use here is different from the word "compare". basically challenge will lead to two results only that is either win or lose. when i win, i will feel satisfied as my hardwork has finally paid off well. on the other hand, if i had lost to my opponent, i wont feel disappointed but i will work extra hard to beat he or she. that is my way of thinking... if u think u can, u can sure make it, but be ready to face the obstacles which could lead to failure. alright , y did i use the word challenge instead of compare? the reason is simple. well let me give u an example, what happens when your parents compare every single mark after an exam with your friends who did better than u? or maybe they will say why my son/daughter is so stupid but yours are brilliant or perhaps a genius? what will you feel? this will only give rise to jealousy rite? or maybe stress ? worst of all, this will only lead to hatred or degration among us. therefore it is very important for us to strongly believe in ourselves. no matter what we do, what other people say about us, as long as we believe we are correct, we fear nothing. one more thing- try to love ourselves. even though we are not loved by anyone or we have lost someone who is close to us, do not feel isolated and the most vital thing here is that we love ourselves. in other words, we are always there for ourselves. last but not least, i would like to thank all my school teachers, tuition class teachers, parents, relatives and my fellow friends and classmates from acs who supported me. without your support, love, encouragement and motivation, i wont be standing side by side between u guys. thank you everyone i love u so much and do enjoy your precious moments with your family members. TATA